Op-Ed - TikTok University: Inside the World of "Alt-Right Femboys" [Video]

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I'm going to say it: I love TikTok. It teaches, it entertains, and "TikTok University" keeps serving lessons you won't get anywhere else. After the murder of conservative activist Charlie Kirk on September 15, 2025, my FYP went into overdrive with politics, identity, and a surprising topic: femboys. Not trans. Not drag. Just feminine-presenting guys talking about how some in their space lean conservative or even far right. So I started digging. The deeper I went, the clearer the contradiction became and the more it revealed about how today's extremism markets itself online.

What a "femboy" actually is

"Femboy" is a slang term for mostly cisgender men who adopt feminine style or behaviors. The look and the community grew on forums and then exploded across Reddit and TikTok with trends like #FemboyFriday. It isn't a gender identity in itself and doesn't dictate sexuality. It's fashion, vibe, and sometimes performance.

Why does the far right talk about femboys at all

On the surface, the alt-right worships traditional gender roles and hyper-masculinity. You'd expect them to reject femboys outright. Many do, framing them as symbols of "civilizational decline," a long-running talking point in that world's writers and influencers.

But internet culture is messy. The same anonymous spaces that incubated 4chan-style edgelord politics also hosted queer and androgynous aesthetics. The overlap created a strange pipeline: some femboy creators echo right-wing dog whistles, while some alt-right posters flood meme threads with femboy imagery, sometimes lusting, sometimes mocking, often playing it off as "just jokes." Queerty's reporting captured creators and commentators calling it out directly: "the femboy community has a fascism problem."

Post-irony: the mask that makes propaganda shareable

A lot of this happens through layered humor: memes so absurd you're not sure what's real. Pitchfork documented how TikTok's "brainrot" feeds serve whiplash pairings, a goofy femboy-fantasy skit followed by anti-immigrant dog whistles over a hardstyle beat, turning bigotry into background noise. That confusion is the feature, not a bug, because it launders ideology as entertainment.

The case study everyone points to: "Nazi catboys"

Back in 2019–2020, far-right streamer Nick Fuentes promoted "Catboy Kami," a kawaii-coded troll in cat ears who spread racist shock content. Why platform him? Because he was good at going viral; entertainment value was the gateway to politics. That's not me guessing. Australian public broadcasting documented Fuentes praising Catboy Kami's meme power as a recruitment advantage. It worked. The content spread, audiences grew, and the contradiction, anti-LGBTQ rhetoric packaged with camp aesthetics, became a calling card.

What this mash-up really reveals

Transgression as branding. The alt-right thrives on shocking the mainstream. Embracing a symbol that clashes with its macho image keeps attention locked and makes the movement look "internet-native."

Masculinity anxiety You'll find users who rant about "effeminacy" one minute and lust after femboy aesthetics the next. Reports and creators describe real-world overlaps and relationships within these circles, which expose the gap between the tough-guy posture and lived reality.

Identity becomes flexible online. If you post the right politics, some communities overlook the aesthetic contradiction. That's the power and danger of avatar culture.

Normalization through the feed. When extremist cues ride along with cute, chaotic, or funny content, they spread further with less resistance. The more this cycles through For You Pages, the more desensitized audiences become.

Why Kirk's killing changed the online temperature

Kirk's murder increased the volume of political content across platforms. It also triggered an increase in threats and hoax calls, according to national outlets, as algorithms filled feeds with "us vs. them" narratives. That climate is exactly where post-ironic propaganda thrives: highly emotional, highly shareable, and easy to misread as harmless.

So what do we do with all this?

Separate aesthetics from ideology. A skirt, eyeliner, or cat ears do not make someone progressive or reactionary. Pay attention to the rhetoric and symbols embedded in the jokes.

Clock the "it's just a joke" shield. If the punchline keeps circling racist, anti-LGBTQ, or authoritarian themes, that's not random.

Curate your feed like your diet. Tap "Not Interested," block generously, and avoid boosting content you wouldn't endorse.

Support creators who educate. TikTok can be a classroom. Elevate those teaching media literacy and calling out manipulation.

Femboys didn't "become" alt-right. A loud minority inside extremist pipelines learned how to use femboy aesthetics as bait. The contradiction gets clicks. The clicks build audiences. And the audiences are easier to radicalize when the politics hide behind a wink.

Sources

• Definition and growth of the femboy aesthetic.
• Coverage of the Charlie Kirk investigation and political fallout.
• Queerty's 2025 article on far-right currents in femboy spaces.
• Pitchfork on TikTok "brainrot" and normalized bigotry.
• ABC reporting on Catboy Kami and the far-right's entertainment-as-recruitment strategy.
• Background on "decline" rhetoric in far-right thought.

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Lawmakers hear gender notification bill

A bill before the state Legislature aims to ensure parents are notified by their local school district if their child chooses to "socially transition" genders or start using different pronouns.

The proposal, An Act Relative to Parental Rights in Education , was the subject of a hearing before the Joint Committee on Education on Monday, when lawmakers heard from dozens of concerned parents during an occasionally emotional hearing.

Filed by State Rep. David DeCoste, the lawmaker said the bill is written to be "very narrow" in order to put power back into the hands of parents.

"This was drafted, just as background, with some folks who are way over the other side ideologically from me. So, I think it is written fairly to address some very specific concerns," the Republican said.

According to the text of the bill, if it were to pass, the state would ban all "instruction by school personnel or third parties on sexual orientation or gender identity" for students in kindergarten through third grade.

The proposed legislation would require schools to come up with a plan to notify parents "if there is a change in the student's services or monitoring related to the student's mental, emotional, or physical health or well-being and the school's ability to provide a safe and supportive learning environment for the student." The proposal also mandates that districts not adopt procedures which would prohibit such notification, unless it is to prevent abuse or neglect as defined in state law.

"The procedures must reinforce the fundamental right of parents to make decisions regarding the upbringing and control of their children by requiring school district personnel to encourage a student to discuss issues relating to his or her well-being with his or her parent or guardian or to facilitate discussion of the issue with the parent," the bill reads, in part.

Beth Kurth introduced herself to the committee as a "liberal democrat" and parent who supports the bill. She said her son's school district needed her permission to administer aspirin to treat a headache, but wasn't required to inform her of some significant changes in their life.

The idea that schools would have a right to intervene in a child's gender nonconformity without parental involvement is mind boggling," she said. "Make no mistake, social transitioning - giving a child a new name and gender - is a very big intervention.

Some students who chose to transition, she said, only do so because the idea that their gender may have been improperly diagnosed at birth was planted in their heads when they were too young to understand the implications. Kurth said that the entire idea of transitioning only serves to force children to choose which gender stereotypes to accept, and that kids aren't ready to learn about sexual identity or orientation at a very young age.

"Let's leave the kids be," she said.

According to Pew Research , a significant portion of parents would prefer that their young students do not learn about gender ideology or transitioning from teachers or through school instruction. About 45% say their children did learn these topics at school, and think that's a bad thing, or didn't and think that's a good thing. Around 13% said it was good that their children learned these topics at school and bad if they didn't. The rest, according to Pew, didn't see either scenario as good or bad.

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