The woman asked newsrealtimeon Reddit for advice on how to handle the situation
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- A woman found out that her husband has been constantly sending money to his coworker.
- This isn't the first time this has happened, the woman explains on Reddit
- She had "repeatedly" asked him to stop
A woman is unsure what to do after having to repeatedly ask her husband to stop sending money to his coworker.
The woman began her Reddit post By explaining that her husband "has a history of infidelity in the workplace," noting that "less than 24 hours" after she gave birth, she found out that he "sent a woman $25 on Zelle" for lunch. After reading through their messages, the poster deduced that he and the coworker "had a standing lunch date every Friday," which was why he sent her money.
The woman shares, 'I understandably had an issue with this being 24 hours postpartum, feeling like he prioritized this woman over caring for me, his brand new baby, and our other two children. He told me he just wouldn't talk to her anymore (she works in a separate part of the building so this shouldn't be hard to avoid her).
The real issue, however, is that the woman found "multiple Zelle transactions with large sums" between her husband and the same coworker.
"He says he and this person (let's call her Terry) only exchange money. So she gives him cash and he'll Zelle her an equal amount, or she Zelles him and he gives her cash because 'sometimes she just needs cash or would prefer to have money in her account instead,'" the woman explains.
When the poster asked why he was acting like his coworker's "personal bank," he claimed "he 'helped' plenty of other newsrealtimethis way, but his bank statements say otherwise."
When I first brought it up, he transferred her $600. I never saw the cash she supposedly gave him in exchange," she writes. "I was upset because of our past and felt like something else was going on. He, again, said everything would stop and he wouldn't talk to her or send her money again.
However, after he said that, the woman found that $100 had been sent from the female colleague. to her husband.
"Why? He claims he gave her a $100 bill, she texted him after telling me he wouldn't do that anymore," she writes.
His behavior has led her to wonder whether she is "overreacting" or if there is truly "something else going on here."
If there were any other transactions from other coworkers he's claimed to have 'helped' I wouldn't think anything of it," she explains. "But the fact that he lied about that and then continued doing something he told me he wouldn't doesn't sit right with me.
newsrealtime the comments section suggested there was something more to the story.
Sounds like he's having an affair: an emotional affair with this colleague. Financial infidelity and possibly more. I think I'd discreetly hire a private investigator to get to the bottom of this," one person commented. "Discreetly consult with an attorney to learn your rights and standing. Then figure out where to go from there. Your husband sounds like he's very disloyal and disturbed. Maybe counseling might help but you deserve better. Look into work-from-home/remote positions so you can gain financial independence.
While others agreed there was something fishy going on, they questioned whether it was an affair or something else "shady."
Why doesn't she want whatever the cash is coming out of her account," another person chimed in. "She doesn't want her actions public for whatever [reason] ... He may be legit just fronting her money but why does she need it. She's in some mess that he shouldn't drag you into in a roundabout way. YOU have a right to the WHOLE truth.
The woman replied to multiple comments regarding getting legal help, noting that she doesn't "have money for an attorney because of the stay-at-home mom thing" but will keep her options open.
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